I am wondering that you are mentioning a living area, which was not there. As it is clearly stated in my ad, that there is no living area offered. So why mentionining it and why not choosing a whole appartement. Of course space can se perveived differently, but my Kitchen is obove german standard, it has everything you need for cooking and space for three person to sit at a table an eat there. You write you were cooking a bit. Is 4 hour being in the kichen every day "a little cooking"?. For me personally not. Having Plates (about 20), mugs (15), pots (10 in different sizes) for at lest 8 Persons is againg from my perspective enough for two person. But you decided to have your doughter also being almost constantly in my appartement (which you didnt pay for), maybe that was a reason why you were running out of whatever you needed.
You write the place is clutterd, which most of my guest write and experience the opposite. There was a cleaning before and after your stay. Againg there is no information in my ad about the place will be cleanded for you during your stay. Its Aribnbn accommodation and not a hotel. Additionally you were asked every day, if there is anything I can do for you or if something is missing. I am disappointed that you didnt tell me the things you write here once during your stay. I think I would like you to offer how to communicate during a stay in a guest house to make it also fine for the host to be able to meat expectations of guests.